Breaking Down Walls: Small Group Discussion

Small Group Discussion Guide: A Love That Surpasses Knowledge (Ephesians 1:3-14)


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Icebreaker
- What is one word or image that comes to mind when you think of God’s love? Why?

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Scripture Reading
Read aloud: Ephesians 1:3-14

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Discussion Questions

1. God Sees Us as Sons and Daughters (Ephesians 1:3-8)
- Paul says we are adopted as sons and daughters through Jesus. What does being "adopted" by God mean to you personally?
- Why is it important to view yourself as a child of God rather than through the lens of your job, successes, or failures?
- How does understanding that God provides and protects as a loving Father address the "orphan spirit" in our lives (fear of provision or protection)?

Application:
What practical steps can you take this week to live out your identity as God’s child?  

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2. God’s Plan is Unity Under Christ (Ephesians 1:9-10)
- Paul tells us that God’s ultimate purpose is to unite all things under Christ. What does this unity look like in the church, in your family, or in your community?
- How does an “Us for Them” mindset (versus “Us versus Them”) change the way we approach people who are difficult or different from us?
- Think of a person or situation where you’ve seen division. How might God be calling you to reflect His love and bring reconciliation?

Application:
What is one wall of division in your life that God might be asking you to address?

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3. You Have Been Given the Holy Spirit (Ephesians 1:11-14)
- The Holy Spirit is described as a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance as God’s children. How does this assurance change the way you view your relationship with God?
- How can we rely on the Holy Spirit daily instead of seeking feelings or signs of His presence?
- What is one way you’ve experienced the Holy Spirit teaching, guiding, or empowering you recently?

Application:
What area of your life needs the Holy Spirit’s leading right now, and how can you actively invite Him into it?

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Reflect and Respond
- Personal Reflection: What is one takeaway from today’s discussion that you feel God is asking you to apply this week?  
- Group Challenge: As a small group, brainstorm one tangible way you can reflect God’s love and unity in your community this week.

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Closing Challenge
Commit to breaking down walls, living as sons and daughters of God, and reflecting His love to others.